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MYTH: People with MBC always look sick.

TRUTH: Metastatic breast cancer can be invisible.


Take a look at me.

Can you see that I’ve been living with, and been in active treatment for, Stage 4 metastatic breast cancer for the past 11 years? That I’ve had 15 surgeries since I started my cancer journey? That I’ve had so much radiation that I think I’m a tiny bit radioactive by now?

Can you see that every single day, I make a choice to get up and keep going, despite all the brutal side effects from living with Stage 4 cancer?

I get it a lot: “You look so good. You can’t be sick.”

Yeah, I look awesome, thank you. And I appreciate it—I know you mean well.

But my MBC right now is invisible. Just because I’m not on IV chemo and losing my hair on my face and head, just because I don’t have a puffy moon face, doesn’t mean that I’m not sick.

So think about that next time.

This is my MBC, the one you cannot see.


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